It takes two (at least according to Rob Base & DJ EZ Rock's 1988 hit). And because we want a thing (or two) to go right for our kids, we have to teach them how to resolve a conflict. Below, a common-sense primer that distinguishes bullying from run-of-the-mill rude behavior and how to handle it. These tips are meant for tweens and teens, but they can help the rest of us too, so things don't just go right... they're outta sight!